Sébastien Recotillon Presents
The Art of
Making Love
The Sex Education every Lover deserves
Sex can be so much
more than pleasure.
Most men know this somewhere.
Very few have found
their way back to it...
The Art of Making Love is that map.
THREE THINGS THIS PROGRAM WILL TOUCH
Let's Come Alive
So many men spend their sex lives trying to be more, or to do more. From avoiding issues to learning "how to". But the greatest pleasures happen when we drop all of that. Most of what men call sexual problems dissolve not through technique, but through returning to the body.
Pleasure needs no skills.
Did you say
Full Body Orgasms?
There are depths of connection and bliss that most men have never touched or even heard of.
Not because they're rare or reserved for a spiritual elite. Because nobody said it was possible, and nobody showed them the way.
Here's a map.
What shifts in bed,
shifts in Life.
What shifts in bed, shifts in life. How you allow yourself in lovemaking mirrors how you show up everywhere.
Lovemaking is the playground where we discover how to dance with life itself.
Let's learn to dance.
What's Included
The Art of Making Love
20+ videos
8 main themes with presentation, explorations meaningful inquiry and conversations.
The practices guide
A downloadable PDF gathering 20 solo and 14 partnered explorations & practice,
offering variations to fit beginners and advanced.
🎁 Gift 1: an extra theme
A challenging module, and perhaps the most unexpectedly transformative one. The kind of explorations that forever changes how you make love.
🎁 Gift 2: Live Before You Leave
A digital copy of Sébastien's book. An intimate confession to Life, sharing experiences and lessons with a rare and raw honesty.
My commitment to you
If you engage genuinely with the program
(watch the videos, try the explorations) and after 30 days nothing shifts, contact me.
I will personally support you in your journey,
free of charge.
The Full Package:
197€
What You'll Explore
A different kind of education
Not a course. A journey inward: using your sexuality as the most honest door into who you are.
1. What Nobody Told You About Sex
Most of us discovered sexuality from horniness, hormonal urges and almost no education. Friends loved to brag and joke, but real conversations about fear, desire, confusion? Those never happened. Family felt too awkward. School taught us anatomy and contraception. Nobody taught us about what actually matters. This module is what should have been there from the start: the real difference between horniness and Eros, and what pleasure actually is.
2. When the Body Says No
Coming too quick. A soft cock. A libido that comes and goes, lately, mostly goes. This module is the honest conversation about these things: how deep they can cut, how poorly they're understood, and what actually works.
3. Home
Most men don't really feel their body, they carry it around. Using it as a tool, sometimes a burden. Always wishing some part of it were different, more this, less that. But pleasure isn't born from rubbing the body: it flows from inhabiting it. Anyone who wants to explore full body orgasm must first come back home to this body.
4. Did You Say Full Body Orgasm?
So much talk, so many jokes about the O, and so few people actually know what it is, let alone how it works. Many believe you can give one to someone, but that's not how orgasm works. This module identif the difference between ejaculation and orgasm, what sexual energy actually is, and how to increase and move it. From there explore what becomes possible when you do.
5. Just Before the Edge
What most men consider the finish line, the firework, is actually an open invitation to something they've never felt. I won't preach to stop ejaculating, that's just another form of control. But I will show you the hiatus that lives just before the release. A threshold. This module is about the choice to stay there and to surf that edge.
6. What You've Never Said Out Loud
Funny how easy it is to joke about desire, but hard to genuinely talk about it. So many things you want that remain unsaid, even hidden. This module is about what lives inside those desires: what they reveal, what they're actually asking for. What fantasies do to you, and what to do with them.
7. Daring the Other Side
Beyond sexuality, we've all built an image of who we are and who we are not; what we do and don't do; what feels like "me". Clinging to that identity creates rigidity and leads to boredom. This module is going to ask you to step outside that image, to experience a side of yourself you've been convinced isn't yours. It will feel unusual. Possibly ridiculous. Surely alive.
8. The Art of Making Love
There were moments — surely not as many as you wished — when making love became something else. Not just pleasure. Not even connection. Something closer to losing yourself together — the mind going quiet, time dissolving. You couldn't name it then. This module is the answer. Why we make love at all — and what we are really looking for every time we do.
WHAT'S INCLUDED
The complete online program
8 modules + intro ; 2 to 4 video per module:
Each week a dive into the theme, a presentation of the explorations,
guided practices, a written transcript, and deep reflection questions.
The practices guide
A downloadable PDF gathering 20 solo and 14 partnered explorations & practice,
offering variations to fit beginners and advanced.
Bonus 1 🎁 — 1 EXTRA MODULE
It is probably the most transformative, likely the most challenging too.
Come with all the content (presentation + explorations solo & partnered).
Bonus 2 🎁 — Live Before You Leave
A digital copy of Sébastien's book. The life's story behind the program, in full.
Therapist, coach in relationships & men's guide,
and author of Live Before You Leave
Since 2012, I've accompanied men who wanted more from life. Men honest enough to look within, and tender enough to be gentle with themselves."
The Art of Making Love
is all I would have needed at the beginning of my journey to avoid most of the traps
and to truly enjoy a meaningful sexlife.
F.A.Q.
Is this some kind of new-age sexuality thing?
It goes deep: into questions most programs avoid. About sexual energy. About what we're actually looking for when we make love. Some of what you'll find here draws from ancient traditions. Some of it from modern sexology. I call none of it by name. What you'll find is grounded entirely in your body and your own direct experience. No dogmas, no vocabulary to adopt, no belief system required. Just a man talking honestly about what he found — and asking you to look for yourself.
I'm single, does this still work?
You need only yourself. The journey is with your own body: to feel it, to dance with your desires, to experience your own pleasure. Many find it gives them exactly what they needed: a real reconnection with themselves, with life itself.
If you have a partner:
There's a whole section of explorations to do together, guidance on supporting one another along the journey, and reflections that invite meaningful conversations. Many couples love doing it as a shared experience. Others use it as a solo journey — and share the fruits in the relationship.
I have a specific issue (premature ejaculation, erection loss, low libido) since long. Will this actually help?
Yes! In a way you haven't tried before, and perhaps for the last time. I know this isn't your first attempt. Techniques, control, discipline. What I offer is different: a way to understand what the body is actually saying, and to build something closer to a friendship with it. Many men find that the turning point was simply stopping the fight. From there, the body becomes a playground — and a very different story becomes possible.
I've read books, done workshops, tried other programs. Nothing really changed. Why would this be different?
Most of what's out there gives you more to know: techniques to master, frameworks to follow, disciplines to maintain. The problem isn't your understanding — it's your connection to what you actually feel. Rather than men's work, this is men's play: a space where transformation comes from curiosity, not discipline. From that space, things actually shift — effortlessly.
How much time does this take each week?
The program is self-paced, with a recommended rhythm of one module per week. Between the videos and the main exploration practice, I'd estimate two to three hours of genuine engagement per week. The reflection and journaling is yours to pace. Though you may find yourself enjoying spending much more time with some of the explorations, that tends to be a good sign!
What if I'm not straight? Still for me?
Yes. The program is written from my own life's experience — as a man that loves bodies of all shapes and colours. I share experiences and invitations that speak to something in men that goes beyond who we love or how we identify. Some examples may need translating. The substance translates completely.
This program is an invitation to remember.